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Because you want to become a present dad

Eric - This is a life experience

8 Mar 2024 · 29 min

Episode notes

In today's episode, we dive deep into the heart of fatherhood with Eric, a soon-to-be dad navigating the complex emotions and preparations for welcoming a new life into the world. From his reflective journey on the influences of his upbringing to the anticipation of crafting new traditions, Eric opens up about the nuanced path to parenthood. As we explore Eric's story, we touch on the significance of community, the transformative power of sharing experiences, and the importance of embracing the unknown. This episode isn't just about the logistics of becoming a parent but the profound changes it brings to one's identity and outlook on life. Eric's candidness provides a window into the joys and challenges that come with this major life transition. Whether discussing his connection with his partner, Amy, their decision to start a family, or his hopes for the future, Eric's narrative is a compelling reminder of the depth of the parenting journey. We wrap up with a look ahead, promising to revisit Eric and Amy's story as they cross into the new territory of parenthood. Their adventure is just beginning, and we can't wait to see where it leads them. Join us for an episode filled with heartfelt stories, laughter, and the kind of honest conversation that connects us all. Here's to the journeys that define us and the futures we build together. See you on the next episode! Music by Podington Bear

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NOWBRARY

NOWBRARY · 01 / 02 · 2 MIN READ

The Nowbrary

A nowbrary is the books we keep near us. It's mostly offline.

On walks in my neighbourhood, with the luxurious real estate a baby stroller provides, I would actively curate my collection. Books that had remained in my home for too long, unread and collecting dust, or that I had simply outgrown, came along in the stroller and went into the little free libraries, which freed up space on my Ikea Kallax. While I was there, I would browse what other people had left.

The nowbrary initially started as a way for me to stop feeling guilty about collecting books. At some point I shifted from collecting physical books to a ballooning 2500+ digital library. Whenever I have a flight or train bound travel, I end up staring at a wall of my books agonizing about what to take before my eyes gravitate towards the ones I’ve already read. Or specifically, the ones that hold the most promise of teaching me something new. 9 out of ten, those books will probably be the ones that find themselves in my bag.

I don’t like what Goodreads has become. In 2013 it described its Reading Challenge like this: “We’ll let you know when you’re falling behind and when you’re out ahead!” (opens in a new tab)

Mine isn’t a list of my best books, or of books I plan to read. It’s about a longitudinal relationship with a select number of books.

Books move in and out of the shelf like seasons. I like the idea that the shelf in any one season works as a life bookmark. Looking back at it would show me where I was at the time.

The “now” in the name comes from Derek Sivers’ /now page (opens in a new tab), which he added to his website in 2015 to say what he was focused on. The shelf can go online too, at /nowbrary on your website. The nowbrary is not the /now or the /about page, but a page that hosts the books you’ll always have within reach. For ideas, look through the shelves at nowbrary.com (opens in a new tab): Montaigne’s, Melville’s and mine (opens in a new tab).

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